Frequently Asked Questions
What should I expect from a first session?
How do you handle safety and consent?
A typical session begins with a calm conversation to establish boundaries and desires. My focus is on creating a safe, high-end environment where your kinks are explored with mutual respect.
Consent is the foundation of every interaction. I utilize a safe word system and perform regular check-ins. Your safety, both physical and emotional, is my highest priority at all times. I also require clients to inform me of medical conditions that my be of note when booking, so i can ensure your safetyduring your booking.
What happens if I'm sick on the day?
Please be considerate of my health and wellbeing by not attending your booking if you are unwell. Intimate and close-contact experiences require mutual care, and I will not see clients displaying symptoms of cold, flu, or other contagious illnesses. Protecting my health is essential, as becoming sick directly impacts my ability to work and honour future bookings.
Standard deposit policies still apply in cases of illness-related cancellations. Allergies, of course, are completely fine and understood, as they are non-contagious.
If you arrive visibly unwell or showing cold and flu symptoms, I reserve the right to end the booking and ask you to leave.
How does pricing , deposits and payment work?
Rates are based on the session duration and specific requirements / requests and extras booked. A transparent price will be given to you on receiving a booking request via text and prior to paying your deposit. A deposit is required to secure your booking and these are non refundable. Cancelations will result in your deposit being lost.
If I am cancelling on you eg. sick, cancelled tour etc. I will refund your deposit. This can only be done via Beem it or cash deposit via ATM for privacy reasons. I advise all clients have a Beem it account for fast and convenient digital refunds in cases such as these.
If you are being RUDE or dangerous in any way I may cancel your booking without any refund of your deposit.
If you send a larger then requested deposit eg. a full prepayment or 50% deposit this is still considered your deposit and none of it refundable. This is why I ask for a specific amount, sending additional is done at your own risk.
What happens if I want to shorten or extend my booking?
Time reserved for you is intentionally set aside and prepared in advance. If you have pre-booked a 1 hour session, full payment for that booked time is required upon arrival.
Please be mindful that bookings cannot be shortened upon arrival, as your reserved time directly impacts my schedule, preparation, and availability.
Any changes to your booking duration should be discussed with me prior to your appointment.
Should you wish to extend your session, this may be possible if my schedule allows. Extensions are not guaranteed and must be paid for in full before the session continues. Payment is always upfront.
What if i am late?
My time is valuable, structured, and intentionally reserved for you. When you book with Goddess Red Velvet, punctuality and respect are expected. Repeated lateness disrupts not only my schedule, but the standard of experience I provide.
If you arrive within 10 minutes of your scheduled booking time and you have booked a minimum of an hour, I may choose to honour your session at my discretion. Any further delay risks immediate cancellation of your booking and forfeiture of your deposit.
When I am touring, timing is even more critical. Late arrivals during tour bookings will very likely result in your session being cancelled, as I will not compromise my schedule, energy, or other reservations to accommodate poor time management.
I appreciate those who respect my time, my space, and the effort that goes into curating your experience.
Can we establish hard boundaries?
Yes. I encourage a full discussion of hard and soft limits before we begin. Respecting these boundaries is non-negotiable and essential for a fulfilling and safe experience.
Can I bring my own gear?
Absolutely. If you have toys or gear you're comfortable with, we can incorporate them into our session after a safety inspection.